The saga continues ...
Not a good week so far!28 total reviews
Comment from Jumbo J
Hi Wendy,
To tell you the truth, Harry spilling the beans on you reporting these poor excuses for carers of any form of life, was a mistake. Now this rude little man has gunpowder and so will the owners of the poor dogs. Be careful, these people can be very vindictive and therefore dangerous.
I guess we all have these weeks Wendy? Maybe you were meant to stay put for a good reason.... but yes, you seem to be on a run.
Locked in dogs are totally stressed all the time... and for someone to think by electrocuting them to stop the barking is a good idea just tells me the integrity of that person, or person's. I can't believe the collar is not banned in Australia... but then again, maybe the lazy-lying-angry little man could wear one to keep him in check?
Over the years I have pretty much had these conversation with neighbours... and yes, to no avail. People will do what people do, we can just be who we are and allow our caring nature to nurture.
Hopefully the weeks to come will run a lot more smoothly my friend. I enjoyed the read, although this tale, a familiar one makes my blood boil... and hey((((((((, thanks for being that caring person who does give a damn!
He insisted he had been every 'single' night to feed them.
With our thoughts we create...
the harmony of our action.
Kind regards,
James.
reply by the author on 16-Apr-2023
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Hi Wendy,
To tell you the truth, Harry spilling the beans on you reporting these poor excuses for carers of any form of life, was a mistake. Now this rude little man has gunpowder and so will the owners of the poor dogs. Be careful, these people can be very vindictive and therefore dangerous.
I guess we all have these weeks Wendy? Maybe you were meant to stay put for a good reason.... but yes, you seem to be on a run.
Locked in dogs are totally stressed all the time... and for someone to think by electrocuting them to stop the barking is a good idea just tells me the integrity of that person, or person's. I can't believe the collar is not banned in Australia... but then again, maybe the lazy-lying-angry little man could wear one to keep him in check?
Over the years I have pretty much had these conversation with neighbours... and yes, to no avail. People will do what people do, we can just be who we are and allow our caring nature to nurture.
Hopefully the weeks to come will run a lot more smoothly my friend. I enjoyed the read, although this tale, a familiar one makes my blood boil... and hey((((((((, thanks for being that caring person who does give a damn!
He insisted he had been every 'single' night to feed them.
With our thoughts we create...
the harmony of our action.
Kind regards,
James.
Comment Written 15-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 16-Apr-2023
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Thank you so much James. It's so good to see you again! I hope you are going okay, and that your health is not too much of a problem at present. I appreciate your thoughtful and caring review. Yes, it was silly of Harry to let the guy know, and to tell him where I lived. I still believe I did the right thing for the dogs even if it was interefering, and would do the same again. I don't trust the owners, so I hope they'll be okay, and not vindictive. Thanks again.
Wendy
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My pleasure Wendy.
Yes, my physicality has seen me go through it, but I am in a good head space and have a positive outlook of acceptance... so there's half the problem solved. I do pray there is no blow-back from your kind and caring reaction for the dogs though. I'll be reading you(((((((. Ha-Ha.
Comment from T B Botts
Hello Wendy,
I'm glad you're sharing this dilemma. It's so hard to understand why things happen like this, one after another. It's especially hard to be verbally abused by someone who obviously didn't do what they were supposed to be doing and then tried to take it out on you. I'm sorry that you're dealing with all of this. I'm still holding out hope that your phone will show up somewhere, maybe under the car seat. Hang in there gal. You've got lots of support here. Have a blessed day.
Tom
reply by the author on 15-Apr-2023
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Hello Wendy,
I'm glad you're sharing this dilemma. It's so hard to understand why things happen like this, one after another. It's especially hard to be verbally abused by someone who obviously didn't do what they were supposed to be doing and then tried to take it out on you. I'm sorry that you're dealing with all of this. I'm still holding out hope that your phone will show up somewhere, maybe under the car seat. Hang in there gal. You've got lots of support here. Have a blessed day.
Tom
Comment Written 14-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 15-Apr-2023
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Thanks so much Tom. I greatly appreciate your caring review. I think guilt and fear of getting into trouble made him react that way. Interestingly, when I went out to feed the dogs this morning I found all my things had been thrown back over the fence - the owners are now back. That was my "Thank you for caring"! I've ordered a replacement bank card, and will probably start the process of replacing the other cards on Monday, and also I'll have to buy a new phone.
Wendy
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Thank you too for the honour of six stars. I appreciate it a great deal.
Wendy
Comment from Ginda Simpson
No, you sure haven't and trouble with this rude man hasn't helped. I don't feel like there is much hope for your phone, but I suspect some good will come out of your acts of kindness towards the dogs.
reply by the author on 15-Apr-2023
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No, you sure haven't and trouble with this rude man hasn't helped. I don't feel like there is much hope for your phone, but I suspect some good will come out of your acts of kindness towards the dogs.
Comment Written 14-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 15-Apr-2023
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Thanks so much, Ginda. I greatly appreciate your caring review. I think guilt and fear of getting into trouble made him react that way. Interestingly, when I went out to feed the dogs this morning I found all my things had been thrown back over the fence - the owners are now back. That was my "Thank you for caring"!
I've ordered a replacement bank card, and will probably start the process of replacing the other cards on Monday, and also I'll have to buy a new phone. There'll be a lot to do to get it all sorted. At least the car now has a new battery again.
Wendy
Comment from Brett Matthew West
WOW!
That man was way out of line.
Yes a no bark collar will be placed on the dog no doubt.
Seems if anything could go wrong it will.
Would still be concerned about those dogs and the owners being gone so long.
They probably will have nothing to do with you should they ever return.
reply by the author on 15-Apr-2023
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WOW!
That man was way out of line.
Yes a no bark collar will be placed on the dog no doubt.
Seems if anything could go wrong it will.
Would still be concerned about those dogs and the owners being gone so long.
They probably will have nothing to do with you should they ever return.
Comment Written 14-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 15-Apr-2023
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Thanks so much, Brett. I greatly appreciate your caring review. I think guilt and fear of getting into trouble made him react that way. Interestingly, when I went out to feed the dogs this morning I found all my things had been thrown back over the fence - the owners are now back (after being away for two weeks). That was my "Thank you for caring"! I saw them this morning while out with my dog. They ignored my greeting, pretending not to see me. If I hadn't had my small granddaughter with me, I would have started a "conversation", but I was a bit concerned about the language they might use in front of her if they got defensive/aggressive.
Wendy
Comment from Debi Pick Marquette
Oh my Wendy, what an ordeal you have been through. As if you hadn't already been tortured by trying to help save those dogs and lose your drivers license and credit cards and phone, and that man obviously was not there caring for the dogs like he was supposed to be. Then you get treated like this and threatened, how could it get any worse ? I was thinking while I was reading your story that it's a good thing. You are a woman with such faith and patience because I'm afraid of what some would do in a situation like this. I know being a Christian myself I try very hard to be patient but when somebody says something that is wrong accuses you with something that is wrong and treat you like you've done something wrong that is almost too much to bear. Bless you for all the good you have done through this. I've tried to keep up with your stories so far and I just pray for you that things are going better , that the dogs end up getting decent care by the one assigned to them and that you find your .phone and cards. ,Rest assured Wendy, anyone who knows you knows the truth. I've not met many I hold in such high regard, my sweet friend!
reply by the author on 14-Apr-2023
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Oh my Wendy, what an ordeal you have been through. As if you hadn't already been tortured by trying to help save those dogs and lose your drivers license and credit cards and phone, and that man obviously was not there caring for the dogs like he was supposed to be. Then you get treated like this and threatened, how could it get any worse ? I was thinking while I was reading your story that it's a good thing. You are a woman with such faith and patience because I'm afraid of what some would do in a situation like this. I know being a Christian myself I try very hard to be patient but when somebody says something that is wrong accuses you with something that is wrong and treat you like you've done something wrong that is almost too much to bear. Bless you for all the good you have done through this. I've tried to keep up with your stories so far and I just pray for you that things are going better , that the dogs end up getting decent care by the one assigned to them and that you find your .phone and cards. ,Rest assured Wendy, anyone who knows you knows the truth. I've not met many I hold in such high regard, my sweet friend!
Comment Written 13-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 14-Apr-2023
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Thank you very much Debi. Such warm and lovely encouragement. The dogs are quieter and more placid than they have EVER been. I realize now why they broke the fence last year and entered into our backyard. They aren't vicious, just needed help, more food and water, and some loving kindness, and a walk every so often. They have never been for a walk!!! So it's ongoing. Now I know they are not just bored but hungry and thirsty. I will continue to be a nosey neighbour and stand on my box and talk to them, and if they start up barking and whining again after their owners return, I'll know they need food and water. But I will watch that Bear doesn't end up with a zapping collar as well. How cruel. Thank you again.
Wendy
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Thank you too for the lovely six stars - a great honour, which I appreciate it. Funnily enough, I didn't even check the rating, I was so moved by your words.
W
Comment from Faith Williams
Oh my, Wendy, you had some rough days! I hope by now at least your car is taken care of. So sorry about that man though. I imagine your neighbors will have had an earful by the time they get home. Hopefully, the next few days are better.
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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Oh my, Wendy, you had some rough days! I hope by now at least your car is taken care of. So sorry about that man though. I imagine your neighbors will have had an earful by the time they get home. Hopefully, the next few days are better.
Comment Written 13-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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Thank you for a lovely and understanding review. Yes the car has been fixed. No phone yet. Neighbours are still not back, but the dogs are calm and quiet, and I make sure I check their water bucket and food, and talk to them every time I am out the back.
Wendy
Comment from Mary Shifman
The loud mouthed bully is obviously lying. The dogs were obviously starved and thirsty. I do hope something is done about them. These people don't deserve animals. If it's all the fault of the so-called pet sitter, then he should be fined or something. People like that know how to work the system, though. I hope you don't have to deal with him again. Poor Sunny--he must have been bitterly disappointed to have missed out on his Therapy Dog outing!
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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The loud mouthed bully is obviously lying. The dogs were obviously starved and thirsty. I do hope something is done about them. These people don't deserve animals. If it's all the fault of the so-called pet sitter, then he should be fined or something. People like that know how to work the system, though. I hope you don't have to deal with him again. Poor Sunny--he must have been bitterly disappointed to have missed out on his Therapy Dog outing!
Comment Written 13-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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Yes, when people are guilty and fear exposure and being in trouble, they will attack and abuse. Yes, Sunny was clearly very disappointed, understandable. He also has made friends with all the other therapy dogs, and it's a wonderful outing for him. Thanks for a lovely review.
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You are welcome.
Comment from LisaMay
If I didn't know you to be a truthful person, I would say this is a wonderfully fabricated woeful tale... such an ongoing saga of problem after problem with more than enough stress and distress and a bit of gritted-teeth humour thrown in. What a horrible horrible man to abuse you like that, while clearly lying. Those poor dogs. I hope a solution can be found to all the problems you are having to deal with.
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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If I didn't know you to be a truthful person, I would say this is a wonderfully fabricated woeful tale... such an ongoing saga of problem after problem with more than enough stress and distress and a bit of gritted-teeth humour thrown in. What a horrible horrible man to abuse you like that, while clearly lying. Those poor dogs. I hope a solution can be found to all the problems you are having to deal with.
Comment Written 13-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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Thank you for a great review - and unfortunately, every word is true. I don't think my imagination is that good, but it helped to write it. Lol.
Usually when people feel guilty and are threatened with exposure they try to attack. Interestingly the dogs are so calm now that I can sit in my backyard or hang out the washing without any snarling, growling, or barking. I think now it was not that they were vicious dogs, but that they were hungry and thirsty (and always have been), and desperate for some interaction. I now talk to them at least once a day, and check their water bucket. Yesterday it rained and their food has gone to mush, but they will eat it when they are ready. If not I'll replace it tonight. But they won't starve.
Wendy
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Thank you too for the gift and honour of six stars. Much appreciated.
Wendy
Comment from jessizero
I have been praying for you, and I will continue to do so. I can't believe the time you are having! You told the story well, even though it was unpleasant. Thank you for sharing, and best wishes to you.
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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I have been praying for you, and I will continue to do so. I can't believe the time you are having! You told the story well, even though it was unpleasant. Thank you for sharing, and best wishes to you.
Comment Written 13-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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Thank you Jessi! Greatly appreciated. Your prayers are very much valued. So far no-one has tried to use my bank card, which is good. Meaning the phone was probably lost, rather than stolen, hopefully.
Wendy
Comment from Spitfire
If you said 'Reach' as I advised and still didn't find your phone, then most likely it's in a trash can long gone. Glad to know about a 'no bark' collar in case someone moves in next to me and has a 'yapper' that would not shut up!
Your experience with Roadside Assistance shows how important it is to memorize our cc # and the security card. I hope today is better for you.
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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If you said 'Reach' as I advised and still didn't find your phone, then most likely it's in a trash can long gone. Glad to know about a 'no bark' collar in case someone moves in next to me and has a 'yapper' that would not shut up!
Your experience with Roadside Assistance shows how important it is to memorize our cc # and the security card. I hope today is better for you.
Comment Written 13-Apr-2023
reply by the author on 13-Apr-2023
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Thank you so much. Greatly appreciated, along with the six stars. I haven't quite given up on my phone yet, but it seems that no-one has attempted to withdraw money with our cards yet. The funny thing is, I got all the numbers correct including the threee digits at the back - but my husband had locked the withdrawals at a cap of $200 (because of my lost phone) - and the new battery was $215. Lol. It was one thing after another. The car is fixed now, at least!
Many thanks.
Wendy