Wish You Were Here
A letter about every day stuff....26 total reviews
Comment from Sally Law
Aw, such a sweet letter and journey through a most difficult time on the calendar. I have those. I like your letter therapy. I employ this too. It's quite healing. A death of a spouse, I haven't experienced. I am blind and my middle son and his family have already reassured me many times of their role if that were to happen. Still, the void left from my loving husband makes me cry. I can't imagine. You are so strong!
An area of polishing for your consideration.
I know I always answered, "I know. I know.", but we both understood - I didn't. You repeat yourself.
Perhaps this: "I know," I always answered. But we both understood--I didn't. Long dash needed after understood.
I hope this is helpful and adds to your fine writing. Sending you my best today as always.
Sal XOs...xo...
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Aw, such a sweet letter and journey through a most difficult time on the calendar. I have those. I like your letter therapy. I employ this too. It's quite healing. A death of a spouse, I haven't experienced. I am blind and my middle son and his family have already reassured me many times of their role if that were to happen. Still, the void left from my loving husband makes me cry. I can't imagine. You are so strong!
An area of polishing for your consideration.
I know I always answered, "I know. I know.", but we both understood - I didn't. You repeat yourself.
Perhaps this: "I know," I always answered. But we both understood--I didn't. Long dash needed after understood.
I hope this is helpful and adds to your fine writing. Sending you my best today as always.
Sal XOs...xo...
Comment Written 02-Aug-2021
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Thanks Sally...
I actually did feel better while I was writing this letter. Of course, I cried, but somehow I felt he was there and we were actually talking and he understood. It's crazy I suppose, but it was a good moment.
thanks for your help. It's always appreciated.
Smiles, Carol
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Not crazy at all! Thinking about you today! XOs
Comment from robyn corum
Carol,
I really like the idea of sharing your thoughts in letters. Not only is it a fab way to let things out, but you can also look back later at them. It's a beautiful tribute. Thanks for sharing - sending special Bama hugs this morning! (the best kind!)
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Carol,
I really like the idea of sharing your thoughts in letters. Not only is it a fab way to let things out, but you can also look back later at them. It's a beautiful tribute. Thanks for sharing - sending special Bama hugs this morning! (the best kind!)
Comment Written 02-Aug-2021
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Thanks, Robyn...
It actually felt good this morning like we were sharing our morning and laughing. I could feel exactly how he would react to our conversations. Whatever works, right?
Smiles, Carol
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Absollluutely!
Comment from Sandra Stoner-Mitchell
My months of loss are December and January. Those are the most painful months of my year. I understand how you feel, and your letter does a lot to help prepare for that time and cope. I liked the way you joked with your late husband, and I'm sure he is laughing down at you. That we all meet our loved ones again, I have no doubt. As I get older the fear of death fades, especially as I know I'm nearing that time to meet up with my friends and family again. I enjoyed reading this letter, even though I felt like a bit of a snoop. Lol. Loved it, my friend. :)) Sandra xxxx
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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My months of loss are December and January. Those are the most painful months of my year. I understand how you feel, and your letter does a lot to help prepare for that time and cope. I liked the way you joked with your late husband, and I'm sure he is laughing down at you. That we all meet our loved ones again, I have no doubt. As I get older the fear of death fades, especially as I know I'm nearing that time to meet up with my friends and family again. I enjoyed reading this letter, even though I felt like a bit of a snoop. Lol. Loved it, my friend. :)) Sandra xxxx
Comment Written 02-Aug-2021
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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You. my friend. could never be classified as a snoop. My heart, mind and door are always open to you. It seemed strange this morning, but between the tears, I actually was smiling and laughing because I remembered exactly how he would react. It put him here if only for a moment.
Smiles and hugs, Carol
Comment from BethShelby
I love your letter. It has a lot of humor in it and makes me smile. Including those we love in our writing is very good therapy which is why I'm always reminding my husband of our days together. The aniversary of when he left me four years ago was July 23.
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reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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I love your letter. It has a lot of humor in it and makes me smile. Including those we love in our writing is very good therapy which is why I'm always reminding my husband of our days together. The aniversary of when he left me four years ago was July 23.
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Comment Written 02-Aug-2021
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Oh, Beth, I am sorry you had to face another anniversary...It's always tough knowing he's gone, but the actual days we spent in the hospital and then bringing him home, knowing I had to say goodbye... It's like the moment they brought my little Michael out of the water. It's such a stamp of finality.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from Susan Newell
Perfect. What a wonderful letter to read. So many "little things" combine to fill out a relationship and define various roles, as you laugh together through adversities. I'm sure Mike loves this letter and will find ways to reassure you that he is doing fine and waiting for the day when you meet again. Since his experience of time is now different, I'm sure he wants you to embrace your years on this side of the veil with gusto and joyful anticipation of what is to come when the time is right.
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Perfect. What a wonderful letter to read. So many "little things" combine to fill out a relationship and define various roles, as you laugh together through adversities. I'm sure Mike loves this letter and will find ways to reassure you that he is doing fine and waiting for the day when you meet again. Since his experience of time is now different, I'm sure he wants you to embrace your years on this side of the veil with gusto and joyful anticipation of what is to come when the time is right.
Comment Written 02-Aug-2021
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Thank you, my dear friend...
It was a difficult write at first, but even though I cried, I felt good. I could hear his exact words and his laughter... our laughter together was the best... Thank you for the awesome thoughts and the stars...
Smiles and hugs, Carol Hope you are feeling okay today.
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You are most welcome.
Comment from Beejay
Such a lovely,lovely, idea...you re an inspiration.It was so beautiful and exquisite with strength and emotion intertwined within your words....words that really effected me.
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reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Such a lovely,lovely, idea...you re an inspiration.It was so beautiful and exquisite with strength and emotion intertwined within your words....words that really effected me.
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Comment Written 02-Aug-2021
reply by the author on 02-Aug-2021
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Thank you, Beejay.
How kind of you. It was difficult at first to write, but then it felt like he was there. I knew exactly what he would say and the laughter...our laughter was the best. He always wanted me to laugh. I appreciate your thoughts and kindness.
Smiles and hugs, Carol
