2024 Gypsy's Prose
Viewing comments for Chapter 2 "The Best Decision I ever Made".
14 total reviews
Comment from barbara.wilkey
As mother of four adult boys, I agree motherhood is the best. The only close second is grandmotherhood. Thank you for sharing this contest entry with us. I enjoyed reading and want to wish you luck with the contest.
reply by the author on 17-Jun-2024
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As mother of four adult boys, I agree motherhood is the best. The only close second is grandmotherhood. Thank you for sharing this contest entry with us. I enjoyed reading and want to wish you luck with the contest.
Comment Written 17-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 17-Jun-2024
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Yes, grand-motherhood rocks! LoL
Thank you very much for taking the time to read and review my poem. Have a wonderful day.
Gypsy
Comment from Jumbo J
Hi MariVal,
well, it doesn't get more real than this!
Your love for life would have never seen you choose wrongly... your desire to be a mother was a much stronger knowing.
My own mother had just turned seventeen when she gave birth to me... nine days after her birthday to be exact. I can only imagine how difficult such an experience at that early age would have been... and I too am truly grateful to my mother for giving me a chance at life.
I loved that you went out and 'purchased' the excellent parenting book by Dr Spock. I'm glad it may have helped you negotiate such a new way of life.
All the very best of wishes in this True Story Flash contest dear MariVal. I loved your candour, grace and strength.
With our thoughts we create...
a sound choice.
Warmest regards,
James.
reply by the author on 18-May-2024
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Hi MariVal,
well, it doesn't get more real than this!
Your love for life would have never seen you choose wrongly... your desire to be a mother was a much stronger knowing.
My own mother had just turned seventeen when she gave birth to me... nine days after her birthday to be exact. I can only imagine how difficult such an experience at that early age would have been... and I too am truly grateful to my mother for giving me a chance at life.
I loved that you went out and 'purchased' the excellent parenting book by Dr Spock. I'm glad it may have helped you negotiate such a new way of life.
All the very best of wishes in this True Story Flash contest dear MariVal. I loved your candour, grace and strength.
With our thoughts we create...
a sound choice.
Warmest regards,
James.
Comment Written 18-May-2024
reply by the author on 18-May-2024
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Hey, James, it's so good to hear from you. Thank you for taking the time to read my entry for the contest. I appreciate your exceptional six stars review!
As everything I write, it comes straight from my heart. Some say I reveal too much about my personal life but for me is like therapy, it helps me process my emotions and it's all part of my art expression. As Rick Nelson said, "You can't please everyone So you got to please yourself"
I am happy your mother gave you a chance at life, you are such a wonderful and kind person and best friend.
Besitos y abrazos
MariVal
Comment from Ricky1024
Pro choice is a very important important issue in society today.
There are so many people like myself that believe. Yes, it is the woman's preference, but also the baby has a choice in the matter.
Whether or not it is a viable fetus or still in vitro.
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Here in New Jersey many many years ago...
We had an issue with what was known as..
"The Prom Queen."
Melissa Dexter.
Perhaps you could consider this 17-year-old a child.
But this young woman gave birth in the bathroom during the prom.
And, unfortunately she was scared.
Yes, and did not know what to do?
She did not abort the baby but the baby fell into the toilet.
She was so scared.
She picked it up and put it in the trash can.
And, then went back to the prom.
And continued to dance.
Of course, the child was never saved and never had a chance.
And, of course Melissa did 8 years in prison.
It made international besides public news.
...
Just several years after this incident, there was a woman.
Of course who was mentally ill.
And, again unfortunately decided to drown herself.
And her three children in the back in their child's seats.
Of course, once the Chevy van went into the water, she was a coward and saved herself.
And of course she was not able to detach the children from the back child restraining seats.
And, again unfortunately they passed away.
...
This was well written rich in Theme and Imagery.
It also, read well and Flowed well with no Grammar Issues.
...
Note:
About 23 years ago, my stepdaughter Kyle got pregnant at the age of 19 years old.
I considered her not only just a young woman.
Yes, I'd taken care of from the age two but also a woman.
Sasha Lynn had a problem
And, after her birth she Could not keep her body weight above 5 pounds.
While Kyle Who had toxcemia could not even give natural birth here.
And, that day pushing?
I told her you need AC section.
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Now Gypsy, for 3 weeks.
I drove back-and-forth to Jersey Shore hospital in Neptune, New Jersey.
It just opened up a brand new Neo Natal.
So, Sasha was in the old one.
And of course way back then.
If the child did not take its feeding within 20 minutes, they would tube feed the baby, which of course, did not work.
Also, finally, a new Doctor had come in and he said.
"Now if Sasha could take doen her afternoon feeding?"
And, it was just 5 oz."
"She could go home."
...
And of course, she wouldn't be able to, so I told her soon to be husband Fred
...
"NOW, either you drink the Damn stuff.!"
"Yes, or I am cause i'm not coming back up here driving back and forth over a hundred and fifty miles!"
...
Note:
Within 1 week, Baby child Sasha Lynn Drum.
Yes, put on a full pound being in the Care of my household.
And, the quietness of a bedroom.
Yes, where she could have peace and quiet.
And, plenty of time to be fed.
By a mother and father who loved her so.
Doctor Ricky
reply by the author on 17-May-2024
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Pro choice is a very important important issue in society today.
There are so many people like myself that believe. Yes, it is the woman's preference, but also the baby has a choice in the matter.
Whether or not it is a viable fetus or still in vitro.
...
Here in New Jersey many many years ago...
We had an issue with what was known as..
"The Prom Queen."
Melissa Dexter.
Perhaps you could consider this 17-year-old a child.
But this young woman gave birth in the bathroom during the prom.
And, unfortunately she was scared.
Yes, and did not know what to do?
She did not abort the baby but the baby fell into the toilet.
She was so scared.
She picked it up and put it in the trash can.
And, then went back to the prom.
And continued to dance.
Of course, the child was never saved and never had a chance.
And, of course Melissa did 8 years in prison.
It made international besides public news.
...
Just several years after this incident, there was a woman.
Of course who was mentally ill.
And, again unfortunately decided to drown herself.
And her three children in the back in their child's seats.
Of course, once the Chevy van went into the water, she was a coward and saved herself.
And of course she was not able to detach the children from the back child restraining seats.
And, again unfortunately they passed away.
...
This was well written rich in Theme and Imagery.
It also, read well and Flowed well with no Grammar Issues.
...
Note:
About 23 years ago, my stepdaughter Kyle got pregnant at the age of 19 years old.
I considered her not only just a young woman.
Yes, I'd taken care of from the age two but also a woman.
Sasha Lynn had a problem
And, after her birth she Could not keep her body weight above 5 pounds.
While Kyle Who had toxcemia could not even give natural birth here.
And, that day pushing?
I told her you need AC section.
...
Now Gypsy, for 3 weeks.
I drove back-and-forth to Jersey Shore hospital in Neptune, New Jersey.
It just opened up a brand new Neo Natal.
So, Sasha was in the old one.
And of course way back then.
If the child did not take its feeding within 20 minutes, they would tube feed the baby, which of course, did not work.
Also, finally, a new Doctor had come in and he said.
"Now if Sasha could take doen her afternoon feeding?"
And, it was just 5 oz."
"She could go home."
...
And of course, she wouldn't be able to, so I told her soon to be husband Fred
...
"NOW, either you drink the Damn stuff.!"
"Yes, or I am cause i'm not coming back up here driving back and forth over a hundred and fifty miles!"
...
Note:
Within 1 week, Baby child Sasha Lynn Drum.
Yes, put on a full pound being in the Care of my household.
And, the quietness of a bedroom.
Yes, where she could have peace and quiet.
And, plenty of time to be fed.
By a mother and father who loved her so.
Doctor Ricky
Comment Written 16-May-2024
reply by the author on 17-May-2024
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Thanks
Comment from Mike Stevens
Another fine write, Gypsy, and at least you had the option about whether to have an abortion. That is between you and you conscience. We have too many unwanted kids as it is to add many more to their ranks. It makes me so mad that Republicans seem to think women who choose to have an abortion use it as birth control, which is also on their target list
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Another fine write, Gypsy, and at least you had the option about whether to have an abortion. That is between you and you conscience. We have too many unwanted kids as it is to add many more to their ranks. It makes me so mad that Republicans seem to think women who choose to have an abortion use it as birth control, which is also on their target list
Comment Written 16-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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I agree with you. Have you watch Trump democrats are getting abortion AFTER they baby is born... he is such a freaking lier.
I'm pro choice, it's women's bodies their choice. Women will not stop getting abortions, they won't have safe ones.
Thank you very much,
Gypsy
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Agree completely
Comment from Douglas Goff
I know this is a 1/2, but I wanted to comment.
So, first off, no parents are perfect. All it takes is one good person in a child's life to make a real difference. I have a feeling, okay, I know you were that person in your children's lives.
We don't have to be right. We just have to be there.
Bless you.
2 girls/1 boy? just curious.
D
I just remembered that you asked me what this was before:
(one point/two cents= 1/2)
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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I know this is a 1/2, but I wanted to comment.
So, first off, no parents are perfect. All it takes is one good person in a child's life to make a real difference. I have a feeling, okay, I know you were that person in your children's lives.
We don't have to be right. We just have to be there.
Bless you.
2 girls/1 boy? just curious.
D
I just remembered that you asked me what this was before:
(one point/two cents= 1/2)
Comment Written 15-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Yes, I have 2 girls children (adults now) and 2 girls and one boy grandchildren. (*=*) I have taken care of my 6 yrs old grandson since his birth. He is my little man. I'm lucky to have remarkable family.
I welcome grammar feedback, Prose is not my forte.
Thank you very much for your exceptional six stars review.
Gypsy
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I saw no errors, my friend.
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Thank you, Douglas, have a wonderful weekend ☺️
Comment from kahpot
The subject and the way you have told/explained this has earned this six,
(can't help with grammar or punctuation) but yes, it is the individual's decision, no one other than the mother to be should have any say whatsoever, very well written, best wishes for your contest****kahpot
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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The subject and the way you have told/explained this has earned this six,
(can't help with grammar or punctuation) but yes, it is the individual's decision, no one other than the mother to be should have any say whatsoever, very well written, best wishes for your contest****kahpot
Comment Written 15-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Thank you very much, for the exceptional six stars review.
Gypsy
Gypsy
Comment from shelley kaye
prochoice as well. no one knows what a woman is going through except that woman.
a great true story flash
thank you for sharing and good luck in the contest
shelley :)
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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prochoice as well. no one knows what a woman is going through except that woman.
a great true story flash
thank you for sharing and good luck in the contest
shelley :)
Comment Written 15-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Thank you very much, Shelley. I appreciate your exceptional 5 stars review.
Gypsy
Gypsy
Comment from GWHARGIS
I was twenty-two but unmarried and childish. Best decision I ever made was to have my son. He's forty now. No regrets, only thank yous to God for choosing me. I applaude your choice and your piece. Gretchen
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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I was twenty-two but unmarried and childish. Best decision I ever made was to have my son. He's forty now. No regrets, only thank yous to God for choosing me. I applaude your choice and your piece. Gretchen
Comment Written 15-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Thank you very much, Gretchen. I welcome help with the grammar, it's not my forte.
Gypsy
Comment from juliaSjames
So much courage in your story, Gypsy, and so much love. You were still a child yourself, but you took a life changing decision to give birth to your daughter.
I think you have written your story clearly and in a touching way that will resonate with many readers.
I am curious. Please forgive my intrusion, but I wonder if your family supported you once you made your decision. Your reference to Dr Spock seems to indicate that they didn't. But I think a few words to clarify will round out your story.
Excellent author notes.
Best of luck in the contest.
Blessings, Julia
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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So much courage in your story, Gypsy, and so much love. You were still a child yourself, but you took a life changing decision to give birth to your daughter.
I think you have written your story clearly and in a touching way that will resonate with many readers.
I am curious. Please forgive my intrusion, but I wonder if your family supported you once you made your decision. Your reference to Dr Spock seems to indicate that they didn't. But I think a few words to clarify will round out your story.
Excellent author notes.
Best of luck in the contest.
Blessings, Julia
Comment Written 15-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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My family, my mother's sister, supported my decision. My father sent a letter to my aunt telling her it was her fault but it wasn't, and my dad left me so he didn't have the right of an opinion.
Thank you very much, Julia. Prose is not my forte so I'm happy you
think i have written my story clearly and in a touching way.
think it's well writen your story clearly and in a touching
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So pleased your aunt stood by you. As for your post, you wrote from your heart, and it showed.
Blessings, Julia
Comment from LateBloomer
Hi Gypsy, children are a treasure. You were a young mother, but you learn how to be the best mom ever. You chose life, and life gave you a lifetime of love. How beautiful. Your story is well told. Perfect photo choice. As this is a contest entry, I wish you good luck. Xo. M
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Hi Gypsy, children are a treasure. You were a young mother, but you learn how to be the best mom ever. You chose life, and life gave you a lifetime of love. How beautiful. Your story is well told. Perfect photo choice. As this is a contest entry, I wish you good luck. Xo. M
Comment Written 15-May-2024
reply by the author on 16-May-2024
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Thank you very much, M.
Gypsy