Expectations
versus acceptance5 total reviews
Comment from Dolly'sPoems
I think we do expect a lot from our children as parents and encourage them to achieve, but we should temper it with some compassion as they are only children. My children are now adults with families of their own but they still ask for my advice on occasions, I enjoyed the sentiment here Jesse, a well written poem, love Dolly x x x
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I think we do expect a lot from our children as parents and encourage them to achieve, but we should temper it with some compassion as they are only children. My children are now adults with families of their own but they still ask for my advice on occasions, I enjoyed the sentiment here Jesse, a well written poem, love Dolly x x x
Comment Written 12-Dec-2024
Comment from Tim Margetts
So true, Jesse.
With my four boys, all I have ever asked of them is that they give things an honest try. Not everything may work but as long as they try their best, nobody can ask more of them.
They are all different, and, as far as I am concerned great adults making their way in the world.
Do they have faults? Of course, that's part of being human.
But they try their best.
Tim
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So true, Jesse.
With my four boys, all I have ever asked of them is that they give things an honest try. Not everything may work but as long as they try their best, nobody can ask more of them.
They are all different, and, as far as I am concerned great adults making their way in the world.
Do they have faults? Of course, that's part of being human.
But they try their best.
Tim
Comment Written 12-Dec-2024
Comment from Peter Jarvis
Your poem powerfully captures the emotional struggle between parental expectations and the need for acceptance. It's a poignant reflection on how these dynamics can shape and impact both children and parents as they navigate life's journey.
The contrast between expectations and acceptance is beautifully articulated, highlighting the importance of allowing children to grow into their authentic selves. Your closing lines offer a hopeful and necessary call for parents to let go of rigid expectations in favor of love and understanding.
Thank you for sharing this deeply meaningful piece inspired by your friend's experience. It resonates on many levels and serves as a gentle reminder of the power of acceptance.
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Your poem powerfully captures the emotional struggle between parental expectations and the need for acceptance. It's a poignant reflection on how these dynamics can shape and impact both children and parents as they navigate life's journey.
The contrast between expectations and acceptance is beautifully articulated, highlighting the importance of allowing children to grow into their authentic selves. Your closing lines offer a hopeful and necessary call for parents to let go of rigid expectations in favor of love and understanding.
Thank you for sharing this deeply meaningful piece inspired by your friend's experience. It resonates on many levels and serves as a gentle reminder of the power of acceptance.
Comment Written 12-Dec-2024
Comment from Cindy Decker 3
Jesse,
A wonderful statement for everyone. Acceptance is what most people want. High expectations of a person sets one up for failure. I'm sorry about your friend not being able to be himself around his parents.
Excellent, Jesse.
I hope you have a blessed Christmas.
Blessings,
Cindy
reply by the author on 12-Dec-2024
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Jesse,
A wonderful statement for everyone. Acceptance is what most people want. High expectations of a person sets one up for failure. I'm sorry about your friend not being able to be himself around his parents.
Excellent, Jesse.
I hope you have a blessed Christmas.
Blessings,
Cindy
Comment Written 12-Dec-2024
reply by the author on 12-Dec-2024
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Hello Cindy. Yes, high expectations sets up a person for failure. I agree wholeheartedly. Acceptance is hard to come by when the parents are judgemental and discriminatory. My friend's parents have these traits. Thank you for your kind words.
Thanks for the blessings, my friend.
Jesse
Comment from royowen
I must admit I enjoy my mature children, they are well educated and have developed their own view points and have followed us in the faith, so we are friends and can enjoy their company as sophisticated and knowledgeable adults, beautifully written Jesse, blessings Roy
reply by the author on 12-Dec-2024
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I must admit I enjoy my mature children, they are well educated and have developed their own view points and have followed us in the faith, so we are friends and can enjoy their company as sophisticated and knowledgeable adults, beautifully written Jesse, blessings Roy
Comment Written 12-Dec-2024
reply by the author on 12-Dec-2024
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Thanks, Roy, for your encouraging review. Your mature children sound much older than my friend who is still in their 20s and developing their lifestyle. I am happy you share and enjoy each other's company. Thanks for your kind words.
Thank you for your blessing.
Jesse