The Lost Mind of a Young Son
A deepening crisis in my Son's Welfare15 total reviews
Comment from C. Gale Burnett
I was looking through your portfolio and this story caught my attention.
Excellent writing! Your first paragraph immediately drew me in. From the start everything rang true, and I know this because of my own family's personal experience with my step-granddaughter (now 22). Misdiagnosed for years as being bi-polar and manic depressive, she continued with suicide attempts, threatening our own safety, hearing voices, etc. Finally, last year she was re-diagnosed with schizophrenic affective disorder and, with changes in her medication, and the fact that she is taking her medication, life has settled down, and she is flourishing as best she can.
I felt many emotions as I read through your story. I understand why you want to be on this site. Writing is a release, a way of sharing, and this site is a community of fellow writers and become much like family.
Hope to hear how you and your family are doing.
Oh, EPHESIANS 3:20: what a perfect verse to turn towards in this type of situation. Love the photograph.
Hugs,
Gale
reply by the author on 28-Jun-2023
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I was looking through your portfolio and this story caught my attention.
Excellent writing! Your first paragraph immediately drew me in. From the start everything rang true, and I know this because of my own family's personal experience with my step-granddaughter (now 22). Misdiagnosed for years as being bi-polar and manic depressive, she continued with suicide attempts, threatening our own safety, hearing voices, etc. Finally, last year she was re-diagnosed with schizophrenic affective disorder and, with changes in her medication, and the fact that she is taking her medication, life has settled down, and she is flourishing as best she can.
I felt many emotions as I read through your story. I understand why you want to be on this site. Writing is a release, a way of sharing, and this site is a community of fellow writers and become much like family.
Hope to hear how you and your family are doing.
Oh, EPHESIANS 3:20: what a perfect verse to turn towards in this type of situation. Love the photograph.
Hugs,
Gale
Comment Written 28-Jun-2023
reply by the author on 28-Jun-2023
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Thanks again Gale. I'm wondering if your granddaughter was impacted by the THC a potent chemical in marijuana. That usually takes young girls and guys over the edge.
Comment from LaRosa
I need first to say that you have a gift for drawing a living word picture of life moments. You draw your reader in, and he/she can't stop reading, hoping for the best outcome.
I feel so deeply for your son, for you and your wife. Our son struggles the roller coaster life of the dually-diagnosed schizophrenic. Every word you wrote is an exact replica of moments and conversations with our son, of fear and hope, loss, and cherishing of tiny, shining break through moments of lucidity. My heart is breaking for you all.
No one, not even extended family really understand the terror of losing your child to an illness he/and you are defenseless before. They try, but only Jesus can really feel your heart pain.
Only the arms of Jesus wrapped around him and you gives hope, only His love carries you through the pain. Oh, dear Brother, Jesus does love him. He loves you too. He really doesn't look away.
It seems never to end, I know, but He made your child, He loves Him dearly. He knows every cell of his body and regardless of how things look, he will never abandon him.
I know that you must ask: why, why did such a sweet beautiful child have to lose the ability to belong in his own mind? We just can't know, but thank God we can reach out for help. Medicine and medical help is a gift from the Father and we are blest to be in a generation that really tries to understand and help.
Have you contacted NAMI (the National Association for the Mentally Ill)? There is a lot of support there, many who know what you are living. If you haven't, please do. They help, they support, and they often have answers.
I will be praying for you, I won't forget. I promise.
Please write me if you just want to share. You are precious, unforgotten, and oh, so loved by God!
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I need first to say that you have a gift for drawing a living word picture of life moments. You draw your reader in, and he/she can't stop reading, hoping for the best outcome.
I feel so deeply for your son, for you and your wife. Our son struggles the roller coaster life of the dually-diagnosed schizophrenic. Every word you wrote is an exact replica of moments and conversations with our son, of fear and hope, loss, and cherishing of tiny, shining break through moments of lucidity. My heart is breaking for you all.
No one, not even extended family really understand the terror of losing your child to an illness he/and you are defenseless before. They try, but only Jesus can really feel your heart pain.
Only the arms of Jesus wrapped around him and you gives hope, only His love carries you through the pain. Oh, dear Brother, Jesus does love him. He loves you too. He really doesn't look away.
It seems never to end, I know, but He made your child, He loves Him dearly. He knows every cell of his body and regardless of how things look, he will never abandon him.
I know that you must ask: why, why did such a sweet beautiful child have to lose the ability to belong in his own mind? We just can't know, but thank God we can reach out for help. Medicine and medical help is a gift from the Father and we are blest to be in a generation that really tries to understand and help.
Have you contacted NAMI (the National Association for the Mentally Ill)? There is a lot of support there, many who know what you are living. If you haven't, please do. They help, they support, and they often have answers.
I will be praying for you, I won't forget. I promise.
Please write me if you just want to share. You are precious, unforgotten, and oh, so loved by God!
Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
Comment from Robert Zimmerman
Hello Stan.
I'm sorry to hear about the struggles your son is having as well as the whole family. The story has given me an insight into what you're dealing with. You expressed in very well in writing and let me say to you that I will pray for you, your son, and wife.
It takes courage to express personal trials and tribulations.
Robert
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Hello Stan.
I'm sorry to hear about the struggles your son is having as well as the whole family. The story has given me an insight into what you're dealing with. You expressed in very well in writing and let me say to you that I will pray for you, your son, and wife.
It takes courage to express personal trials and tribulations.
Robert
Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks Robert!
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You're welcome.
Comment from Jannypan (Jan)
It sounds like you and your wife are doing better, and have done above and beyond what 'normal' life for your son entails. I pray that your son will continue his meds and get to come home on a visit. However, I believe he will never fit into a 'normal' household just from reading your story. Thanks for sharing, and best wishes.
Respectfully, Jan
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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It sounds like you and your wife are doing better, and have done above and beyond what 'normal' life for your son entails. I pray that your son will continue his meds and get to come home on a visit. However, I believe he will never fit into a 'normal' household just from reading your story. Thanks for sharing, and best wishes.
Respectfully, Jan
Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks Jan!
Comment from lancellot
A very real life story. I wish you all good fortune.
Notes:
["]No, I don't, son. I don't understand. We love you.
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He was [a] healthy young man."
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reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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A very real life story. I wish you all good fortune.
Notes:
["]No, I don't, son. I don't understand. We love you.
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He was [a] healthy young man."
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Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks!
Comment from BethShelby
I'm so sorry to learn that your family is having to deal with this mental illness. So many families face things the people who know they don't realize what may be the crisis in their lives. I've known Schizophrenics and it something that isn't easy on the loved ones. I'm glad there is medication that helps but so often the victim feels they can be normal without it. I'm glad you are willing to share your story. It sounds as though your raised your son to love God. I'm sure he is a wonderful person until he hears the voices he can control.
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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I'm so sorry to learn that your family is having to deal with this mental illness. So many families face things the people who know they don't realize what may be the crisis in their lives. I've known Schizophrenics and it something that isn't easy on the loved ones. I'm glad there is medication that helps but so often the victim feels they can be normal without it. I'm glad you are willing to share your story. It sounds as though your raised your son to love God. I'm sure he is a wonderful person until he hears the voices he can control.
Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks!
Comment from Mastery
Hello, my friend. Needless to say, I am shocked that yu have been dealing with such a hurtful situation. Obviously, prayer alone is not the cure and that tends to make us question if we are doing the right thing too. Like we should do more or cure him somehow.
can only tell you this Stan, your wife too. At least you have him alive and are still able to tell him how much you love him.
Unfortunately, I lost my 14 year old son because of a freak accident when he was struck by a bowling ball of all things.
If you would like to know the inspiring, but sad story go in my portfolio and read "Top of The Mountain" from about fifteen years ago. You may come away realizing just how fortunate you still are. Just continue to hug him night and day.
Bless you my good friend. Bob
reply by the author on 15-Mar-2021
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Hello, my friend. Needless to say, I am shocked that yu have been dealing with such a hurtful situation. Obviously, prayer alone is not the cure and that tends to make us question if we are doing the right thing too. Like we should do more or cure him somehow.
can only tell you this Stan, your wife too. At least you have him alive and are still able to tell him how much you love him.
Unfortunately, I lost my 14 year old son because of a freak accident when he was struck by a bowling ball of all things.
If you would like to know the inspiring, but sad story go in my portfolio and read "Top of The Mountain" from about fifteen years ago. You may come away realizing just how fortunate you still are. Just continue to hug him night and day.
Bless you my good friend. Bob
Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 15-Mar-2021
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So sorry, Bob. I'd like to think that we can vent and share as medicine for our soul. Thanks Bob. So appreciated and timely.
Comment from damommy
I am so sorry this has struck your family. I know you love your son very much and he loves you, too. He's fighting a demon that has dug deep into his mind. I agree that there is a spiritual side to be addressed. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you.
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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I am so sorry this has struck your family. I know you love your son very much and he loves you, too. He's fighting a demon that has dug deep into his mind. I agree that there is a spiritual side to be addressed. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you.
Comment Written 15-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks!
Comment from Mistydawn
I'm sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. I do hope things will get better for you soon. I will keep you and your wife in my thoughts and prayers. Your story is well-written, heartbreaking knowing all the emotional pain you must be going through.
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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I'm sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. I do hope things will get better for you soon. I will keep you and your wife in my thoughts and prayers. Your story is well-written, heartbreaking knowing all the emotional pain you must be going through.
Comment Written 14-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks again Misty!
Comment from Sally Law
My prayers for you know. I'm sorry, this is the ultimate test of ones faith. My husband and I are dealing with a similar situation, it's just not this chaotic. It is as sad, and a daily battle very few know I face.
Writing is a wonderful outlet.
Sending you my best and prayers for you all,
Sal XOs...
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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My prayers for you know. I'm sorry, this is the ultimate test of ones faith. My husband and I are dealing with a similar situation, it's just not this chaotic. It is as sad, and a daily battle very few know I face.
Writing is a wonderful outlet.
Sending you my best and prayers for you all,
Sal XOs...
Comment Written 14-Mar-2021
reply by the author on 19-Mar-2021
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Thanks Sally for the words of encouragement.