Jonathan's Story
Viewing comments for Chapter 6 "The Cost of Caring"Our fostering journey with a severely disabled boy
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Comment from patcelaw
Hi so much loved your story about Jonathan here. My aunt and uncle had four children who were physically disabled, and my aunt was an angel when it came to taken care of those four children she never complained. I kind of feel like you're one of those people as well, and I wish you the very best with this writing of this book, and that it helps others to understand disabilities. Patricia
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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Hi so much loved your story about Jonathan here. My aunt and uncle had four children who were physically disabled, and my aunt was an angel when it came to taken care of those four children she never complained. I kind of feel like you're one of those people as well, and I wish you the very best with this writing of this book, and that it helps others to understand disabilities. Patricia
Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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Thank you so much. If even one person changes to a more tolerant and understanding attitude, my goal will have been achieved. Thank you so much for your lovely review.
Wendy
Comment from GWHARGIS
Learning about what makes him tic. Knowing what fell financially on your family's shoulders was eye opening. I have dealt with the state on occasion. It is very time consuming and at times seemingly more stressful than it's worth. Great chapter. I'm finding this story fascinating. Gretchen
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2024
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Learning about what makes him tic. Knowing what fell financially on your family's shoulders was eye opening. I have dealt with the state on occasion. It is very time consuming and at times seemingly more stressful than it's worth. Great chapter. I'm finding this story fascinating. Gretchen
Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2024
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Thank you very much Gretchen! A lovely review, supportive and encouraging. I feel like saying, "Just wait till you read about later events!" I'm going to tell it exactly as it really happened. I've changed names, but there'll be some who won't appreciate what I expose in this book.
Wendy
Comment from Tom Horonzy
So much to do, so much to say, you sacrificed much and received much in return. The road may have had its lumps, but how bitter is tea without lumps of sugar (love)
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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So much to do, so much to say, you sacrificed much and received much in return. The road may have had its lumps, but how bitter is tea without lumps of sugar (love)
Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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An excellent summary Tom! What a great review. Thank you so much.
Wendy
Comment from Wayne Fowler
How in the world would natural parents manage?
Even in a wealthy nation, it seems impossible to provide for the special needs of all those with disabling conditions.
Thank God in Heaven for willing volunteers. Bless you.
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2024
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How in the world would natural parents manage?
Even in a wealthy nation, it seems impossible to provide for the special needs of all those with disabling conditions.
Thank God in Heaven for willing volunteers. Bless you.
Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2024
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Often the natural parents don't manage, and more than three quarters of relationships break up under the stress.. Thank you very much for staying with the story.
Wendy
Comment from royowen
So your brave saga continues Wendy, there's an awful connected with fostering a child who is severely handicapped, and it's reward are the titbits of progress that your beloved Jonathon, this a very moving post, well done, blessings Roy
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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So your brave saga continues Wendy, there's an awful connected with fostering a child who is severely handicapped, and it's reward are the titbits of progress that your beloved Jonathon, this a very moving post, well done, blessings Roy
Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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Yes, little snippets of progress - but he is as much valued in God's eyes as any of the rest of us. God called and He enabled, throughout all the difficulties, including many to come. Thanks for reviewing.
Wendy
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Well done
Comment from Dolly'sPoems
It sounds like you completely changes every aspect of your life to car for Jonothan and you took on a mammoth task here Wendy and you were probably better equipped to tackle the authorities than his Mother, ensuring he had everything he was entitled to. We have a severely disabled boy in our family and his parents are devoted and it takes planning and thought before they can leave the house. You are doing such a wonderful job and thanks you for sharing this story with us x x x
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reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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It sounds like you completely changes every aspect of your life to car for Jonothan and you took on a mammoth task here Wendy and you were probably better equipped to tackle the authorities than his Mother, ensuring he had everything he was entitled to. We have a severely disabled boy in our family and his parents are devoted and it takes planning and thought before they can leave the house. You are doing such a wonderful job and thanks you for sharing this story with us x x x
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Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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Yes, we took on a big task, and were very naive at the beginning. Each person has value, and we felt like we were making a difference for him. Yes, a lot of thought and planning goes into every outing. I understand your relatives' situation. Thank you so much for continuing to read and review. I greatly appreciate it.
Wendy
Comment from Navada
This designated theme came through very clearly and so did the lack of support from the key agencies - something I've heard much about here in Victoria as well. I could relate to your comments about the GP taking dictation and being paid to do so. It's something I've experienced as well. I continue to be so impressed at the lengths you went to to ensure Jonathan received the best care available. You are amazing. :)
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reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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This designated theme came through very clearly and so did the lack of support from the key agencies - something I've heard much about here in Victoria as well. I could relate to your comments about the GP taking dictation and being paid to do so. It's something I've experienced as well. I continue to be so impressed at the lengths you went to to ensure Jonathan received the best care available. You are amazing. :)
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Comment Written 25-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2024
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Thank you very much for your lovely review. So grateful for your ongoing support.
Wendy