Kelly's Gone by Jessica Wheeler Gone Away contest entry |
Two words. That's all it took for the persistent, gnawing fear that had been lurking in the depths of my mind to materialize suddenly. One phone call and the two words muttered from my fiance's unnerved voice: "It's Kelly." . . My little sister, Kelly, came into my life in 1991, when I was four years old. She was a beautiful baby, a full head of jet black hair and brown eyes like saucers; gigantic and inquisitive. As the youngest child born to my parents, she was adored from the moment she entered our family, with three older siblings to dote on her. Our fierce four consisted of my sister Crystal the eldest; Kelly, the youngest; and my brother John and myself sharing the title of "middle child." Close in age, being born less than two years apart, we were each other's everything.
Kelly and I shared a close bond, one that was rooted in our vastly different personalities and profound sense of trust. Kelly appeared to be timid and nervous on the surface. But there was an indescribable depth to her that few were able to fathom. She trusted very few things in life, but her unwavering trust in me was the responsibility that I happily took on. I encouraged her intuitive and instinctive behaviors, which were unparalleled to anything I had ever seen before. All her life, her trust in me was one that persisted, even as she descended into darkness.
We were inseparable, and the love I had for her was almost maternal. Losing her meant losing a piece of myself. The day I got that phone call, a piece of me died too. . It was the summer of 2015, and I was planning my wedding. She and my other sister were to share the role of maid of honor. Her last of her many relapses broke me before it took her life. I regrettably went a route I hadn't traveled before - I shut her out. I told her that she wasn't to be my maid of honor, or even a guest at my wedding if she wasn't clean.
Kelly did not make it to the wedding.
This choice, is one I was never able to make prior. Before I had my daughter.
The end began when I told Kelly, who was at the time living with me, my now husband, and daughter, that she couldn't stay with us any longer. After her longest span of staying clean in her six year drug battle, she threw in the towel. Our connection made it easy for me know when she was using.
Kelly was dangerously skilled in the art of hiding her drug use, often going months before losing control and being revealed. She would fool and manipulate all- apart from me. When Kelly would give up, I would feel it. I would feel strength leave my body, and I can't explain it in any other way.
I believe Kelly and I were linked in this life and every life prior, souls that were bound as God intended. It's easy to label a drug addict selfish, or manipulative. But Kelly would have given her life for mine in an instant. There are very few things I am sure of, but that is one of them. The all-consuming pain was felt, as a needle’s venom slowly stole her away. I have no doubt she could feel my pain too, every time she allowed poison to circulate and destroy all in its path. Kelly was so much more than a drug addict. Those six months were the last moments I shared with my sister. Despite my entrusted responsibility, I had turned my back on her, and she all but insisted that I do it. She had relapsed yet again, after six clean months. Six months with my sister, where I had a tiny bit of hope. Though small, I held on to it for dear life.
Until I couldn't.
Kelly then moved to California and was in yet another treatment facility, battling an addiction beyond any level she's had in the past. She purposely took herself out of my life, and my daughter's. Her intention was to spare us more disappointment. I don't think it was her intention to die, but I can't deny the fact that she took that risk every time. Every time she felt as though her agony was too much to bear, every time she thought she didn't have a choice. Every time, she knowingly risked leaving me. Every day I wish she hadn't. Occasionally I thought perhaps knowing these risks myself, I'd be prepared for what inevitably happened.
Like her, I was wrong.
I could tell of all the sad tales, such as her many near-death overdoses, places I've retrieved her from, things she's done, things done to her, people I blamed, people blaming her, miles I have driven, states I have flown, and lengths I have run- hoping to save my sister. But what are these but irrelevant stories, to the saddest tale of all. Every one of those times I saved my sister, offered me nothing but time. Just more time to love her. More time to fear. Only to not have been able to save her in the end.
My Kelly was just.. different. Unaware of how special she was, and bursting with potential and intelligence beyond her years. She needed time to grow and experience the world around her in order to fully process her thoughts and curiosities. But her intellect only caused her young mind anxiety. I would tell her, this burden will lift as she grows. I told her I'd be beside her while racking up life's experiences to apply to her overwhelming knowledge. I said I would be there to help piece her troubled thoughts together to form an understanding. I promised her she would be all the more wiser as an adult. That she would one day, with me in her corner, reach her full potential.
I was a fool to promise what I couldn't deliver.
Kelly only lived to age 24.
I held Kelly's hand in her final moments.
I watched the life leave her... my baby sister.
And then, I took her home and laid her to rest.
Eternally, she sleeps; with a permanent question mark to share in her casket.
Both incomplete.
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